A few days ago, I got the news from my wife that we’re having a baby. Since then, I’ve been on cloud nine. But, I’m worried as well. 1st time being a father makes me nervous.
Then, I had a talk with my father. The talk shed a light on me, and inspired me a lot…
???? Dad told me that it’s very easy to know whether the marriage life is happy or not by just looking at the bed.
“No matter what happens, don’t sleep on the sofa, don’t turn the back to your wife when sleeping.
Hold her to your shoulders and chest. All will pass, only love remains.????
A man can be angry, can argue with his wife, but he’s never allowed to beat her. Arguing does not mean using offensive words against someone who will stand by you for the whole life.
The quarrel is an unavoidable thing happening in any relationship. ????♂????♀
A quarrel means honestly saying everything in your heart to understand and be understood much more by your partner. You don’t even understand yourself, so don’t expect others, even your wife to understand you without sharing.
Arguing with women, don’t talk too much, just say enough. A true wife can feel and know when to keep talking, when to keep silent.????????
???? Dad said
“In society, no matter who you are, what you do, when coming home, you’re still the breadwinner of the family. Your wife may be very good at cleaning the house or fixing broken things in the family, but share the housework with her, unless you’re too busy to do so.
That shows both fairness and love between husband and wife. After getting married, I’m sure there will be more than one time you will regret marrying your wife and think of an affair.
In such cases, just remember that: when it comes to marriage, besides loving you, your wife has to take many responsibilities, so she doesn’t have enough time to take care of you or even take care of herself as before.
???? After marriage, she needs to divide her time into many smaller parts: time for you, time for your kids, time for your parents, time for her parents, her work, housework and many things else. That’s a reason why she cannot focus on only you after marriage.
Also, the mistress will only bring you temporary happiness while your wife will bring you sustainable happiness with little babies. So what is better? ????
Pregnancy is the most difficult time ???? for any woman. It is your wife who has to suffer from all physical and mental pain to bring joy to the whole family. So don’t get annoyed or angry when you see your wife is getting less beautiful or less thin.
Let’s feel the joy of becoming parents with her, it will be very interesting.
???? Dad said
“During pregnancy, the father is the one who has the greatest influence on the child’s emotions and development. So, be a good father! You may not be the best father in the world, but you are the best father in the hearts of your kids.
???? Dad also said
“Women are for love, not for understanding; but if you don’t understand, then you can’t love. Understand them with your own heart.
The past is already gone, the present is your life. If in the past, your wife was not good, just forget it. If in the past, she did something wrong, just accept it. Because agreeing to marry her means that you have accepted everything that belongs to her.
Be tolerant and generous! Although she doesn’t say it out loud, I know she will love you for the rest of her life. She unconditionally loves you with respect, with care. So do you! You should do the same.
Life is always unpredictably changing, so please cherish your love, your family happiness every day!” ????????❤????????????❤????????????❤????????